[You can't really blame someone for something they can't control, and it's not like Sans knows how hard Tim has tried or hasn't tried to get control. But he also knows that feeling--that condescending tone people get when they tell you you're not really to blame, it's just that there's that One Thing wrong with you that you can't help. On the one hand, it feels like they quietly resent you for it; on the other, it feels like they're trying to give you a free pass. There's a middle ground in there somewhere, but hell if Sans knows where it is.]
maybe there's just a difference between losing control and giving it up
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[You can't really blame someone for something they can't control, and it's not like Sans knows how hard Tim has tried or hasn't tried to get control. But he also knows that feeling--that condescending tone people get when they tell you you're not really to blame, it's just that there's that One Thing wrong with you that you can't help. On the one hand, it feels like they quietly resent you for it; on the other, it feels like they're trying to give you a free pass. There's a middle ground in there somewhere, but hell if Sans knows where it is.]
maybe there's just a difference between losing control and giving it up